Posts in Tips and Tricks
Ten Quick and Easy Self-care Tips for the Holiday Season

I don’t know about you, but over the years I have let the holiday season drain me to below empty, and that’s not how I want to live! When that happens, not only do I suffer, but everyone around me suffers as well🙈. The holiday season can be magical, beautiful, peaceful and FUN! But only if you have the capacity to enjoy it and not spread yourself too thin. Now that I’ve learned this, I do everything I can to avoid burn out so I can genuinely enjoy the entire season.

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The 12 Month Sleep Regression

Let’s talk about the 12 month sleep regression. I’m sorry to tell you this but…it can be a doozy!

Before we dive in, it’s important to remember that a sleep regression is simply a developmental milestone. Nothing has gone wrong here so there’s no need to panic! In fact, when your baby hits a regression, it means they are developing right on track. That’s comforting, right? Until they start waking up in the night or refusing their naps…😅

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Contact Naps

Sadly, one of the biggest misconceptions about sleep training is that if you teach your baby how to sleep, you’ll never get to snuggle them. Can I just end this once and for all and say this is totally false? In fact, I encourage contact naps — especially during the first four moths.

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What to do When Your Baby's Schedule is Thrown Off

There will be times when your baby takes a short nap (or two), skips a nap altogether, wakes up early, goes to bed late, and everything in between. Not if, but when these things happen, follow what I like to call the “15 minute rule”. This means that whatever happens, you can adjust your baby’s schedule in 15 minute increments to get back on track by bedtime

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7 Things I Wish I Knew Earlier

As a new mom, I was a wreck. I felt SO prepared going into motherhood then once my baby arrived, I felt like I was dropped into a foreign land with zero instructions and zero confidence. I felt lost, confused, and extremely inadequate. It was rough, to say the least.

However, we slowly but surely figured things out together, started sleeping through the night around 10 weeks (this made ALL the difference for me), and learned some really incredible lessons along the way.

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Should I Wake My Baby From Naps?

Research tells us again and again that capping off naps while your baby is learning to sleep can actually be beneficial to their ability to sleep at night. Why? Because if your baby sleeps all day long, chances are they are not going to want to sleep all night long as well. So, waking your baby from a nap during the sleep training period is a huge part of teaching your baby to sleep.

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The Four Month Sleep Regression

Up until four months, your baby goes through “newborn sleep cycles”, or short and irregular ones. Once they hit that four month mark (give or take a few weeks. Every baby is different!), their sleep patterns start to turn into “adult sleep cycles”, where they become more consistent and more predictable. With all of that change and development going on in their little brains, of course there will be some interrupted sleep! It’s a big deal to go through these changes!

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Let's Talk About Hormones

I've briefly mentioned this on Instagram, but I'm in the middle of my hormone healing journey and I said I would keep you updated because let's be honest, who doesn't need to heal their hormones? Between pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding, toxic beauty products, cleaning supplies, food and everything else we go through as women, I think we are all a little wrecked in the hormone department, right?😂 Some more than others, I'm sure🙋🏻‍♀️.

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Why is My Baby Waking Up All Night?

"Jessalyn, I'm feeling kind of defeated. My baby has perfect wake windows, he's eating and growing, he knows how to fall asleep independently, but he will not stay asleep for the life of me." Sound familiar?

Well, after doing some digging (I kind of feel like a detective 🕵🏻‍♀️ when I do this, especially in consultations. Not mad about it!) she said that her baby keeps making noises and grunting in the night, so in fear of him waking up, she hurries over to him, pops the binky in to help him "stay asleep", and within minutes he's awake and crying. This entire process repeats over and over throughout the night.

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